Life's Meaningless
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its not suddenly loh, just that sometimes we never show the weaker side of us out, but i find that its appropiate to share it here in this thread .Originally posted by millennium:How come all of you suddenly so........
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The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you
think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once.
Bottomline :
Time don't wait. If you think you might have found the right one, treasure him/her. Don't let he/she go away. Don't let fear hold you back.
Give it a try else you might regret later... No one other than yourself
knows what can truly make you happy. -
I felt exactly this way too. For these past few months, i get too much dissapointments. Only recently, i realised that it is better to take life easy and not pick on every small details. The more we treasure something, the more we expect and things always dun happen the way we want it to be.Originally posted by Ashley:heehee
suddenly got a lot of things to say, somehow i have a new view of life. In life there are things that i value and treasure, but the more you treasure somethings, the more disapointment you'll get, so now, i am trying to learn to take things lightly, less disappointment maybe i can get a better idea of, what is life ?
i have learnt to take life more easily now, that is why i will never go and end my life now. But i do hope that my lifespan can end sooner, i'm too afriad and weak to face the problems ahead. -
ashley, from your previous posts, i found that u r actually quite similar as me.
KTE, i looked happy that day because i was with the man i love most in my life. i normally feel depressed when alone. anyway, i do not want to show my sadness everywhere i go and dampen everybody's mood. btw, get well soon and take good care of your legs.
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not true leh
I have always been happy go lucky, taking things very lightly. In the end..the disappointments are still there. -
dear dear, you mean i am the man you love most in your life ah?Originally posted by Belle:ashley, from your previous posts, i found that u r actually quite similar as me.
KTE, i looked happy that day because i was with the man i love most in my life. i normally feel depressed when alone. anyway, i do not want to show my sadness everywhere i go and dampen everybody's mood. btw, get well soon and take good care of your legs.
[This message has been edited by Belle (edited 13 March 2001).]
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Woah, disappeared from the forum for a couple of days and gloom greets me at the door! Geez! Cheer up folks! Melancholy makes a bad companion!
What is life? Well, prob only the dead knows and they sure can't tell us abt it! Ok, jokes aside. Let me try to make some points here, and pls, don't think that I'm preaching ok? after all, i'm just an ignorant little girl *winkz*.Originally posted by Ashley:heehee
suddenly got a lot of things to say, somehow i have a new view of life. In life there are things that i value and treasure, but the more you treasure somethings, the more disapointment you'll get, so now, i am trying to learn to take things lightly, less disappointment maybe i can get a better idea of, what is life ?
Ashley: yeah, the more you treasure something, the greater the disappointment you'll get when it goes away. This is the essence of buddhism and zen. But hey, imagine going through life without experiencing the whole wealth of feelings. Imagine a life without the light warm breeze carassing your face, without the beauty of a lovely rose, or without your dearest loved ones..... what is life then? The important thing is to treasure them, and not take them for granted. So that when one day, if they really go away, you'll have the sweet memories to accompany you. You can't have it all in life, but you sure can take the cream of it. -
Aww..... don't see it as weak. As humans, we all have all sorts of emotions and feelings. No one, not even the cheeriest of all men, can smile at all times. Often, we only show the happy and sunny side of ourselves to our friends, but little do we know that we should share our sorrow and sadness too. Friends may not be able to erase all the pain and hurt, but they are likely, very likely, to be able to make it fade just a little.Originally posted by Ashley:its not suddenly loh, just that sometimes we never show the weaker side of us out, but i find that its appropiate to share it here in this thread . -
Dear Belle,Originally posted by Belle:I felt exactly this way too. For these past few months, i get too much dissapointments. Only recently, i realised that it is better to take life easy and not pick on every small details. The more we treasure something, the more we expect and things always dun happen the way we want it to be.
i have learnt to take life more easily now, that is why i will never go and end my life now. But i do hope that my lifespan can end sooner, i'm too afriad and weak to face the problems ahead.
CHOI CHOI CHOI! Aiyo, how can you curse yourself?? From your msg, i gather that you are having some probs right now and probably got quite hurt and disappointed. Maybe now you feel that after what you've been through, you are simply too exhausted to tackle new problems that life throws you.
C'mon dear girl, I'm sure you have more spunk than that. When problems arrive, face them squarely and look for solutions. With your dear and all your friends & family, you have nothing to fear. You are never alone when tackling your problems, just remember that. When you are saying that you will want a shorter life span just coz you don't wanna handle more problems, its like a child who refuses to learn to walk after falling her first steps. If she stops just there, how can she know the wonders of strolling, running, skipping or just walking?
My dear Belle, I've seen kids, even toddlers, stricken with terminal illnesses and yet courageously battling it out for their lives. How can you, a wonderful girl with loves, friends, and family, just give up on life?
Stay strong girl. Just remember, you'll never be alone.
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Yeah, things certainly always don't happen the way i want them to, even though i've tried my best to make things work. Sometimes i find that there is really a limit to what i can do, you have tried doesn't mean you will succeed.Originally posted by Belle:I felt exactly this way too. For these past few months, i get too much dissapointments. Only recently, i realised that it is better to take life easy and not pick on every small details. The more we treasure something, the more we expect and things always dun happen the way we want it to be.
i have learnt to take life more easily now, that is why i will never go and end my life now. But i do hope that my lifespan can end sooner, i'm too afriad and weak to face the problems ahead.
I'm certainly quite similar with you belle, i'm a weak person too. I can't face stress and all the challenges, i'm emotionally weak. Everytime when there is a problem, i try to run away from it. I know i'm a coward, but i can't seem to let myself grow stronger.
But belle, i wouldn't ask for a shorter life span, because i still have my love ones, those love and supported me throughout all the rough times, i can't bear to leave them, esp that someone that i want to be with forever.
I may be weak, but somehow deep in my heart i know that whatever happens, he is always behind me.
I'm sure you are surrounded with love too, although love itself can give you lots of disappoinments, but thats part and parcel of a relationship.
Belle, i sincerely hope that you will be happier and stronger, whatever happens we will always be here for you.
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The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you
think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once.
Bottomline :
Time don't wait. If you think you might have found the right one, treasure him/her. Don't let he/she go away. Don't let fear hold you back.
Give it a try else you might regret later... No one other than yourself
knows what can truly make you happy. -
Yeah i know that having the right attitude in life is very important, however when all the things seems to have fall apart , you will start to have negative thoughts going on in your head. Its just like you suddenly find yourself trap in all those pessimistic thoughts.Originally posted by SeCrEts:Woah, disappeared from the forum for a couple of days and gloom greets me at the door! Geez! Cheer up folks! Melancholy makes a bad companion!
What is life? Well, prob only the dead knows and they sure can't tell us abt it! Ok, jokes aside. Let me try to make some points here, and pls, don't think that I'm preaching ok? after all, i'm just an ignorant little girl *winkz*.
Ashley: yeah, the more you treasure something, the greater the disappointment you'll get when it goes away. This is the essence of buddhism and zen. But hey, imagine going through life without experiencing the whole wealth of feelings. Imagine a life without the light warm breeze carassing your face, without the beauty of a lovely rose, or without your dearest loved ones..... what is life then? The important thing is to treasure them, and not take them for granted. So that when one day, if they really go away, you'll have the sweet memories to accompany you. You can't have it all in life, but you sure can take the cream of it.
But of course, the sunny day always comes after the storm, its just a matter of time before you will break through from your pessimistic thoughts and find new hope in life.
I will treasure life and make the best out of it
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The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you
think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once.
Bottomline :
Time don't wait. If you think you might have found the right one, treasure him/her. Don't let he/she go away. Don't let fear hold you back.
Give it a try else you might regret later... No one other than yourself
knows what can truly make you happy. -
For Belle,
Take it easy girl. Now you are with the man you love. I wish you all the best in life.
I may be the most hated person to you, but do take my advice.
Don't do anything foolish.
Oldman, you bloody hell take good care of her, she deserves it. -
vinvin, of course i will, she deserves someone much better than you.
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You gals/guys are so wonderful!
Hope I can post more messages and know more of you ppl here, if I got the time.
*can someone pls kindly teach me how to do the funny faces on post? I only know this
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heheee
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"Kind words are easy and short to speak, but their echos are truly endless." ~~ Mother Theresa -
Hazelnut:
See liao you will know. http://www.sgforums.com/ubb/smilies.html
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Within you I lose myself
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again. -
Hazel,Originally posted by Hazelnut:You gals/guys are so wonderful!
Hope I can post more messages and know more of you ppl here, if I got the time.
*can someone pls kindly teach me how to do the funny faces on post? I only know this
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heheee
of cos we welcome you to our fatty fatty family. Here although its just a small group of us, but we remain in close relationship in both real life and the virtual world .
As for how to make other smileys,
to what i know there is
:p - sticking tongue - Big grin - Smile
:mad: - Mad
:cool: - Cool face
:eek: - Shocked
:rolleyes: - sacastic
- sad
thats about all and also the total number of smileys in a post is restricted
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The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you
think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once.
Bottomline :
Time don't wait. If you think you might have found the right one, treasure him/her. Don't let he/she go away. Don't let fear hold you back.
Give it a try else you might regret later... No one other than yourself
knows what can truly make you happy. -
mille you forgot something leh,Originally posted by millennium:
why you never say
welcome and very soon you will know the 'people' here..
kekekke
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The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you
think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once.
Bottomline :
Time don't wait. If you think you might have found the right one, treasure him/her. Don't let he/she go away. Don't let fear hold you back.
Give it a try else you might regret later... No one other than yourself
knows what can truly make you happy. -
Ashley:
Look a few post above, search for the post I posted on 12 March 2001 10:27 PM.
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Within you I lose myself
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again.