Ok you may be different or so is angel7030 , but stop running from the facts. Isnt it obviosuly.. You dont need digits and or the news to tell you this... but open your eyes and look around.
Originally posted by gUms:Ok you may be different or so is angel7030 , but stop running from the facts. Isnt it obviosuly.. You dont need digits and or the news to tell you this... but open your eyes and look around.
Then can you answer my query on why so many Chinese want babies but have problems conceiving?
You need at least 2 kids, One to replace mummy and the other to replace daddy.
Originally posted by hasene:
Then can you answer my query on why so many Chinese want babies but have problems conceiving?
How the hell can i answer that men? Are you trying to tell me Chinese man are impotent or the chinese women have a weak womb? I cant ans that mate... That is abit too deep for me to get into...
Originally posted by hasene:
Then can you answer my query on why so many Chinese want babies but have problems conceiving?
too much beer, chivas, MacDonalds, whisky, making money, buffets, medication, radiation and slimming product may cause giving birth a big problem.
Originally posted by gUms:You need at least 2 kids, One to replace mummy and the other to replace daddy.
then another one to replace Daddy's mistress
Originally posted by gUms:How the hell can i answer that men? Are you trying to tell me Chinese man are impotent or the chinese women have a weak womb? I cant ans that mate... That is abit too deep for me to get into...
Does that tell you it is not true that low birth rate is due to Chinese? I am not trying to tell you chinese men are impotent but you seem to have bad impression of chinese and push blame to chinese for low birth rate.
Generally, the chinese people are still very traditional to want children to carry on their family line thus many will still keep trying to conceive. Some when fail to conceive go for adoption.
Originally posted by angel7030:
then another one to replace Daddy's mistress
and why did you not post one more so can be your prostitute to feed you
A marriage life without children, better dun marry
Originally posted by hasene:
and why did you not post one more so can be your prostitute to feed you
what pros, me no pros lah, aiyo.
Anyway, there are lots of healthy singaporeans good sperm cells lost at geyland and joo chiat, what a waste!!
Originally posted by angel7030:
Basically, I think as responsible human, if 2 get married, they should at least give birth to 2 children so that at least can sustain our human domination in this world, even ants are protecting all their might to perserve their eggs and we here are reluctant to give birth, more so if you are married, i heard that after married many years with no children, the couple relation start to strain, and also hor, childrens also provide happiness to the family, one of my workers said, work hard is ok, when go back, see childrens very happy. For this, no amount of money can buy
From what you say. Couple who have problem conceiving would all ended up in divorce lor.
Before being humanly responsible <-- crap though angel, dono what you talking, I think we should be responsible for ourselves and our kids too. If we can't afford to have them, then why should we have kids?
We can't compare to that hawker who raised 10 kids as that was a story repeatedly narrated for donkey years already. With the rising cost now, plus the competition in our education environment, the effort and money put into raising a single child is a lot. Unless people are really obsess over kids, I don't see why many would want.
Originally posted by angel7030:
what pros, me no pros lah, aiyo.Anyway, there are lots of healthy singaporeans good sperm cells lost at geyland and joo chiat, what a waste!!
You really have problem understanding English. You did not do or pass PSLE ??
I am saying about give birth one more to be your prostitute, I did not say you are a prostitute. Please go sign up to take basic English.
The problem is because Of Chasing after money and by the time they have it, They cant conceive... Which is natural. Every women should know that Time is Ticking for them and man should know that if they want a baby they should take care of their body and their lifestyle, it goes for every human being. The problem is chasing after money till Time runs out.
Originally posted by hasene:
Does that tell you it is not true that low birth rate is due to Chinese? I am not trying to tell you chinese men are impotent but you seem to have bad impression of chinese and push blame to chinese for low birth rate.Generally, the chinese people are still very traditional to want children to carry on their family line thus many will still keep trying to conceive. Some when fail to conceive go for adoption.
Because its a fact bro!!!
Originally posted by hasene:
You really have problem understanding English. You did not do or pass PSLE ??I am saying about give birth one more to be your prostitute, I did not say you are a prostitute. Please go sign up to take basic English.
I passed TLSE, taiwan lower school examination only. Me gal go for men pro ar??? no need lah, so many handsome men around
Originally posted by Phantomnite:From what you say. Couple who have problem conceiving would all ended up in divorce lor.
Before being humanly responsible <-- crap though angel, dono what you talking, I think we should be responsible for ourselves and our kids too. If we can't afford to have them, then why should we have kids?
We can't compare to that hawker who raised 10 kids as that was a story repeatedly narrated for donkey years already. With the rising cost now, plus the competition in our education environment, the effort and money put into raising a single child is a lot. Unless people are really obsess over kids, I don't see why many would want.
This one born with a silver, golden, diamond spoon in his mouth, how for one from such background understand??? No need find work, after study straight away work in father's business, pub, prostitution business. He never go thru hardship.
Originally posted by angel7030:
I passed TLSE, taiwan lower school examination only. Me gal go for men pro ar??? no need lah, so many handsome men around
still pretend to be a taiwanese.
Having taiwan PR status does not make one Taiwanese. You really have problem with your English
Why do they fail?? cos they want to be rich and drive a Wrx with a pay of 2k 1st b4 starting a family.... I have said what i want to from the 1st post till now. Bye bye its time for me to head up north for the night. Chow.
Originally posted by gUms:Why do they fail?? cos they want to be rich and drive a Wrx with a pay of 2k 1st b4 starting a family.... I have said what i want to from the 1st post till now. Bye bye its time for me to head up north for the night. Chow.
Yes, that is the one track mind of yours telling you that, racist!
Originally posted by gUms:Because its a fact bro!!!
It is a fact that you have a one track mind.
Originally posted by Phantomnite:From what you say. Couple who have problem conceiving would all ended up in divorce lor.
Before being humanly responsible <-- crap though angel, dono what you talking, I think we should be responsible for ourselves and our kids too. If we can't afford to have them, then why should we have kids?
We can't compare to that hawker who raised 10 kids as that was a story repeatedly narrated for donkey years already. With the rising cost now, plus the competition in our education environment, the effort and money put into raising a single child is a lot. Unless people are really obsess over kids, I don't see why many would want.
Not really in divorce, imagine the pressure from relatives, friends and colleagues, and more so, if you look at other enjoying life with their childrens, both will feel bad...and as both get older and older, life become very stale, somehow, somewhere, the purpose is lost, that is why some are desparate to adopt babie, at least there is a purpose in their marriage life, at least they are working for something, all living things struggled to dominate this planet, u can see even plant like algae try to spread as much as possible, plants and trees in forest are struggle to get a foothold for the best soil and sunlight, so are animals, trying hard to protect their territory and to give birth as much as possible during their mating season, it is only we human, who are funny how reluctant to do it.
Originally posted by gUms:The problem is because Of Chasing after money and by the time they have it, They cant conceive... Which is natural. Every women should know that Time is Ticking for them and man should know that if they want a baby they should take care of their body and their lifestyle, it goes for every human being. The problem is chasing after money till Time runs out.
The only reason I can think of for you to say the low birth rate is due to chinese, is because Chinese form the majority race in Singapore. But even so, you can't push the entire responsibility onto the Chinese. Malays and Indians are not producing either. Thus, why you and your friend can come up with this conclusion is because, with the higher % of Chinese around, you guys would only get to know more on the stories of Chinese not wanting babies.
Correct?
Its not wrong to ensure financial stability before having a child. Its a form of responsibility. And what constitute material luxury? Having a car? Allowing the child to take extra tuition classes and other enrichment lessons?
If we as parents can't afford that, then I rather not have children as I'm unable to provide for my child to unleash his full potential. I'm discounting my child already gUms.
Originally posted by hasene:
still pretend to be a taiwanese.Having taiwan PR status does not make one Taiwanese. You really have problem with your English
Lots of bosses also got problem with english, me just acting only..sgforum need good english meh??
Originally posted by hasene:
Yes, that is the one track mind of yours telling you that, racist!
You are just narrow minded, you cant accept the facts. Bye bye... Off to malaysia for e night..
Originally posted by angel7030:Not really in divorce, imagine the pressure from relatives, friends and colleagues, and more so, if you look at other enjoying life with their childrens, both will feel bad...and as both get older and older, life become very stale, somehow, somewhere, the purpose is lost, that is why some are desparate to adopt babie, at least there is a purpose in their marriage life, at least they are working for something, all living things struggled to dominate this planet, u can see even plant like algae try to spread as much as possible, plants and trees in forest are struggle to get a foothold for the best soil and sunlight, so are animals, trying hard to protect their territory and to give birth as much as possible during their mating season, it is only we human, who are funny how reluctant to do it.
Then why are you still single uh angel.
How can you compare us to algae and animals. -.- It depends on what kind of personality both partner possess. If they are strong in their thinking, and know they don't like children, how then would they feel pressurised and allow their life to become stale just because of the children?
Children are only part of marriage. If you have children, your marriage can equally become stale too. Children are not a guaranteed form of protection.