Originally posted by mylow:
Some people never learn from their mistakes. The partners that they kept finding has the same characteristics and the ending is always the same - break up. I agree with IceIce... think about what you want, who you want to spend your life with and once you find the person that best fit into the "Criteria", treasure him/her. Don't keep looking for love in the wrong direction. In fact, before you even starts to look for love, you have to understand yourself first. Is That Person Suitable for You??
Understand yourself first... so so true.
If I don't understand myself, how can I expect my other half to understand me.
I think love is also selfish... it's about what I want.
Even if I change to be whatever my mate wants...
it would be still about what I want to change or not.
I am sorry for all the things that I should have said or done for those dear to me but I did not.
I just can't help it.
As one grows older, one's patience will increase... mine seems to be getting worse.
Perhaps my secondary school teachers were right when they wrote in the remarks of my report book.
I am a self-centered/independant person.
I do things not because I want to please people or for the good of the others. I do things because I know the outcome will be in my flavour.
No matter how much I want to change this bad trait of mine... it always backfire on me.
If I were to remain a loner till the day I die, it will be of my own doing.