Taking a "Break" from the relationship
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watz your opinion if ur love one said that he/she wan to take a break from the relationship? say about 1 mth
would u agree? Yes / No?
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[color=red]One thing for sure...if both parties are really getting on each other nerves, then i do accept this solution. don't be mistaken that when one tells you that let's have a cooling period of one month, it means break-up. Sometimes in life, we are stressed by alot of things...maybe this one month of cooling period will do the relationship good...it can also let both parties to clam down and think what they seriously want out of the relationship. Although it may at times end in a break-up, at least it will not be an ugly one. Or it might even bring both parties come closer as, afterthis one month, just realise that both cannot live without one another...
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sounds like a good idea....
what Hershey said is pretty true.... not necessarily means break up ... both parties can take the time to cool things down a little bit.
think of what they want, look back at what had happened .... where they want to go (their future together) ....
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to me i dont think so...unless both really busy if not most of the time take time to think means they fellow really sian with this relationship n having doubts liao so why take a break might as well say break off no point give the other party false hope during that period of time
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agree with iceice.
u think working meh?
boring take MC
want go vacation take leave
then if not happy sack the boss
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[color=green]So Mj u agree if you not happy with your wfe, divorce her? Not a good way to do things wor......
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I guess most people will not be so open to such a "suggestion" ...
jAnY: sweetie ... I think I get ur idea and the reason for it ... we don't mean to break up or watsoever .... just time to reflect upon certain matters .... no bad intention lorrr
anyway, just a "suggestion" !! nothing serious!! okie ... -
taking a "Break" from the relationship is like take a Vacation/Holiday
is to give each other space to breathe, to do their own things, to clear some tots... etc etc etc
not to Break Up lah.... -
[color=red]Yeap...just a time to cool off...i think it should be called cooling period....just a time to do own things,recollect some thoughts.....not meaning breakup
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i know just time to cool off but some time when one partner wanted it the other dont want how??
if only one partner wanted to cool off most likely is that he/she cannot take it anymore, and this vacation will be freedom for him/her so u think he/she will want to come back again??
dont forget vacation sometime will lead to affair also leh...... -
aiyo IceICe Baby
seems like u dun have faith in the person you love
y must be so negative? -
take a break, ... most of the time after the 'cooling' period, u will break off.. i am serious. most of my frens, including me before broke off all had a 'cooling' period.
i jus broke up with my bf of 6 yrs.its the same way he wanted a cooling period... .
but i really hope, for u its a time where u can love ur partner even more, or sort of differnces between u two. ...
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"Break" is not a good word to use.
Maybe "time-out" or "pondering period"...
I will agree to it. But the month ain't going to be an easy time to pass through.
To me, I am always on the receiving end of the 'taking a break' request, so far none of the outcome was good.
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[color=brown]Don't feel that way Clone.....not always there is a bad outcome...think of the positive side...
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Jany i dont want to be like that also but no choice....like my ex he say wanna take a break in fact what he wanted is to date another gal n c if in the end who he really love more...and by then when my exam over and we get together again, will he love me more n forget the other gal...that's what he want...
we have to be realistic coz a lot of ppl very unfaithful one...some time ppl unfaithful is because the other party totally dont care about u so have gf/bf also like dont have...but some no matter how good the gf/bf is they still wanna flirt around. -
Metaphor - A dog is man's best friend.
What the heck am I talking about... #$%#$^ must be the wine I had for lunch just now. -
if a short period of "time out" ends up with a broken relationship .... the relationship already had cracks long ago ... so it's just a matter of time ...
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[color=green]Totally agree with joylett....