Tell Tale Signs
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we talk about love, maintaining and ending relationship. what about some sign b4 the relationship ends.....like what the gal/guy is no longer interested to countiue and going to suggest a break up...or when there is a 3rd party in the relationship??
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Tell tales signs can be found if you understand your mate very well... unless your mate is very good at hiding things/emotions.
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tell tales sign ah.....like kept avoiding u
communication between 2 of u becomes lesser than before
dun like to kish, hold hands etc anymore...
the kind of action that u can feel that he/she is rejection or dislike u
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when the kiss is no longer passionate ....
when the hug is no longer as tight as before ....
when he just bochap even when u are so ganjiong about HIS things...
when a simple question out of concern can turn out to be "controlling his life" ...
when he chooses to be with his friends (instead of u) on weekends .... and u had not seen him for the entire week ....
many many more ....
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yalor
no muak muak no hugz hugz no hold hand hand
little bit of things oni he complain n complain
lidat how to be together
den ultimately he is making u "sick" of his attitute and u wan out lor
haiz.....
if no more love den might as well break wat for drag leh
waste "qing chun" and waste "gan qing"
haizzzzzzzzzz..... -
sometimes i realise i can be so dumb ... to let a person criticise me until i have no self confidence .... until my whole self esteem is sheltered .... dumb ahh .... fool in love .....
sometimes when u love a person so much ... even when u know he/she doesn't love u anymore ... u still cling on to it ..... just couldn't let go .... how silly .. -
Ya lor, I also in this situation before many times...
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Joy dahling ah
datz becoz we too "zhong gan qing" liao
bcoz of the love we hv for the other person, we tolerate all sorts of nonsense thrown at us....
however, once we decide that enuff is enuff & decide to leave that person, there will be no turning back
we can be deeply in love b4
but we can be as "hard-hearted" as we wan to be once our love has been "betrayed"....
dunno if this is true for u but it applies to me...
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i agree with joy and jany but some time we women just hold it on too dearly.....thats the bad part.........it will leads to heatbreak for a long long time
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How To Know When It's Over
by Bob Narindra
There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.
Breakup signs are often very difficult to spot, primarily because the people involved often do not want to admit that the relationship has failed. And unless something comes along and hits them in the face, telling them it's over; the natural tendency is to try to work through the problems. This happens more so when the couple have been together for a while.
The question that remains, therefore, is at what point do you really know that it's over?
First lets start with the glaring signs that the relationship is over:
1) You catch your partner in the act of having an unforgivable affair.
2) Your partner uses physical violence against you.
3) You argue non-stop about everything. You can't agree on anything.
The above are obvious, any of the three things occurring above, ESPECIALLY NUMBER TWO, are sure signs that the relationship is coming to an, often abrupt, end.
There are however some other signs to look out for. Sometimes it is necessary to accept the painful fact that the relationship you are in is just not good for you. While I am usually the staunchest advocate for the "you can make it through anything as long as you have love" club, even I have to admit that there are situations where one or both of the partners are just better off apart.
The most common instance of this is when one partner is INTENTIALLY holding the other partner back. When two people have separate dreams and goals, friction can occur, especially if neither of them are willing to compromise. In some instances, however, jealousy leads one of the partner's to be excessively controlling of the other. In these situations, if they are UNRESOLVABLE, it is better to leave than stay.
Other reasons to leave include:
1) You realize that you don't love your partner.
2) You find yourself thinking more and more about how good single life was.
3) You realize that your partner doesn't love you, but is with you because they don't want to hurt you.
4) You have no common interests or goals.
5) You find that you cannot stand their annoying little habits, and they won't change.
6) You find it impossible to be yourself around your partner.
7) Your partner cuts you down, makes you feel bad about yourself, and constantly devalues your goals and ideas.
Under no circumstances should anyone stay in a relationship that is bad for them, just because they feel that being in a relationship, even a bad one, is better than being alone. -
[color=red]What you have written as the reasons above is very ture...well but there are times whereby women are the more soft-hearted creatures and hence, even the tell-tale signs are very obvious, they just refuse to let go simply because, they love the person very much and hope that they will change...
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jAnY: from the above, the book seems interesting ... do u happen to have a copy? can I borrow from u?
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ehhh... i found this article on the internet leh...
let me go see they hv any books on this topic anot and get back to u ok