i feel bad tellin her dat her brows r drawn until beri ugly
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well, i din exactly used the werd ugly. i juz said it was farnie. the worst werd i used was comical.
she's a gd frd of ober 10 yrs. her brows r like drawn until like... short short... on both outer n inner ends...
today i decided to tell her on msn...
i swear my intention was well loh. i din mean to put her down or make her paiseh. coz i m a true frd wat. i onli wan her to be prettier mah.
n, sollie to say dis, ppl hab oways commented dat my brows r drawn beri nicely, so i guessed i cud offered sum genuinely sincere advice to her...
i started out beri innocently like "hey i wan to ask u sumting leh.".
when the conversation told me dat she wasnt taking it dat well - she said her brows r dat short wat, i juz casually suggested dat she cud find one day try draw longer.
den she said dunwan lah. she dun see the rationale of pretending to draw it long when it's short.
i told her the rationale is dat makeup shud be used to conceal flaws n not to emphasize it.
den i asked she knws abt the diagonal alignment from outer corner of eyes to lips rite.
she said ya, and frm dat, her brows r drawn fine wat.
den i chui tat lan.
den omos immediately, she went to another topic which we were at earlier on.
n aft dat, she said she wan go slp liao.
i feel beri guilty loh. my advice wasnt beri welcomed rite. do u tink i shudnt hab told her at all? -
Nvm one la,its better den a guy telling her..
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u are a gal
even we guys know not to comment on gals looks... -
so many years liao. wher got ppl tell her.
normally ppl will skirt such sensitive issues oso mah.
quite sad loh...
shud i pretend like nutin if i see her the nex time? -
talk other stuff.....
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hiyah, u dun understand one lah.Originally posted by laurence82:u are a gal
even we guys know not to comment on gals looks...
as a gd frd, of coz i wan th best fer her mah. -
u mean pretend dat i neber bring up dat topic b4?Originally posted by laurence82:talk other stuff..... -
even good frens dont have to tell the other guy everything....Originally posted by Hello Kitty:hiyah, u dun understand one lah.
as a gd frd, of coz i wan th best fer her mah. -
yesh....Originally posted by Hello Kitty:u mean pretend dat i neber bring up dat topic b4? -
but hor normally gd frens can share n say anyting mah...
juz being frank n not making her look ugly..
i wil tink its ok lor... sumore u nvr say until v bad... -
that means u both not that good yet...
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izzit. take one example lah.Originally posted by laurence82:even good frens dont have to tell the other guy everything....
i normally refrained frm pikin on ppl's ang mo, be it spoken or written. i mean, in rl lah. u dun say u c here, i type like crap liddat lah. but u know rite, when u hear or see sumting utterly wrong, it lealli sting rite. but it's not eben my turn to criticise rite.
but my collik told me to feel free to tell her. so dat she can learn. if not, nex time she oso make herself malu. -
hmmm... but mabbe we tink it wasnt dat bad... coz we werent on the receiving end loh...Originally posted by BabyLover:but hor normally gd frens can share n say anyting mah...
juz being frank n not making her look ugly..
i wil tink its ok lor... sumore u nvr say until v bad...
i duno leh...
ah lau, ya lah, we not close until like sworn to die 4 each other dos type lah... bt still... if not close, den shudnt say? -
okok. i ask u all one qn lah.
frm her response, she din lealli appreciate dat coming frm me rite? -
i mean, she had rather i no say rite?
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seems like lor since she chg topic n dun wanna tok abt it...Originally posted by Hello Kitty:okok. i ask u all one qn lah.
frm her response, she din lealli appreciate dat coming frm me rite?
but mayb she not angry .. juz really tired wanna slp...
tink the next day will b ok n bk to normal la.. -
if she beautiful, introduce to me lah...i tell her for you....
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hshs...i thought u mean kelly
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nvm. tink i will see her again next week or the one after.