I need help
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I'm in such bad mood recently. How I'm dragging myself to work everyday. I have snapped at people, have ignored people, my face is black like charcoal, and I had obviously offended a lot of people. I seem to hate everyone around me, but yet I know I don't hate them. You know what I mean?
I can't go on like that. How? I need help. -
feeling down and snapping at people? poor thing...
could it be fatigue?
or maybe you need a vacation to recharge? get away from it all? -
what made u behave like this? know why and solve the problem from there?
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i wanna get the fark out of this company. but i'm stuck. i cannot afford not to have a job. n if i leave now i'll loose my AWS. everyday is a drag. i've been here for 3 years, but recently have become such a big drag. i haven't open my mouth to tok to anyone yet, cos if i do, i will regret every single thing tat comes out from my mouth.
i have no major personal problems, so tat can't be the reason for me feeling like tat. i guess ita really has to do wth my copany and my job scope. i juz wanna leave like now, but i can't. -
yah bear, i really need to get away. but i got not much leaves left.
dun expect anyone to baable to help or give much advises. probably juz an outlet for me to vent all my anger. -
If your short/mid-term happiness is more important than 1 month's pay, look for a new job and switch when you're ready to.
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hope you feel better and find another job as soon as you get your AWS...
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i will try my best to tahan untill i get my AWS. i need tat one month's pay, i need to save watever i can.
but meanwhile i'm gonna be asking around about jobs liao.
i scared i might go nuts soon. -
poor thing.. in the meantime, try not to think about things.. tune out, switch off..
hopefully, the time passes quickly...Originally posted by keisha:i will try my best to tahan untill i get my AWS. i need tat one month's pay, i need to save watever i can.
but meanwhile i'm gonna be asking around about jobs liao.
i scared i might go nuts soon. -
Dunch worry... from now till year end it's straight smooth road all the way. We'll be there in the blink of an eye.Originally posted by keisha:i scared i might go nuts soon.
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sorry abt that..Originally posted by keisha:I'm in such bad mood recently. How I'm dragging myself to work everyday. I have snapped at people, have ignored people, my face is black like charcoal, and I had obviously offended a lot of people. I seem to hate everyone around me, but yet I know I don't hate them. You know what I mean?
I can't go on like that. How? I need help.
it might be a PMS.
keisha, i've been thru bad mood recently that i even had a fight with my grandma and my client (if my boss knew it, she'd be furious at me), dun wanna talk to my friends, and so so..
and i know it's sound so conservative for you.. but i do a lot of talk with God (i pray) and tell Him what i've been thru, how could i be such a jerk and so so.. and i can tell you that all this really works for me. at least i could be more calm and now could smile again.
throw yourself in a little vacation would be a nice choice or meeting with some nice friends (like Bear and jOhO ??). or you can go to the beach and just yell and throw all your emotions away. it does work for me too.
i know it's not easy to get a new job recently (i'm doing it also). i dun like my job, i hate my salary (it's only 60% than my previous job), i dun like my boss, and..and.. and.. but at least i still have a job at the moment and i must say that out there there are still many unemployments. if i think of it, usually i'd feel better. but.. i dun stop looking for another job of course.
so keisha.. i hope you'll be alrite and will get a better job soon..
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kitten~~
as u said, you don't need anyone to give u advice.. u just need to vent ... and u can do so here. then, most likely you might have a chance to read back on these posts 2 years later and laugh at yourself! of course at the moment you definitely won't be able to see that happening, but the point is that it will all pass, and rather than letting these moments of tribulation take a few years off your life, tell urself that u are gearing up and learning for wat's to come. free endurance training, where to find?
don't be afraid to approach your close friends to say whatever it is that u think u might regret. if they're a true friend they won't be offended, or think badly of your character. sometimes online venting just can't cut it. we all need the human touch. -
/sits down to listen to keisha
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Recently,i also had a friend just like you......
Me get scolded for nothing.........Lucky she is a girl...haha...
she is my friend,so i din think about it(i mean when she scold me for nothing).So You dun worry,if it your friend,so will understand de.Coz everyone will Feel Stress Too.......
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thx everyone......u folks are my friends lor
i can vent my anger n fustrations here, and i sure will feel better after it.
for me, i dun really believe in real friendship outside, especially gfs. they come and go. and what is important to gal are thier bfs, their hubbies, their families. friends will not be their top priority. sometimes i'm like tat too. maybe women are just born to be more family oriented. and of cos there are gals out there who feel friendship is very important to them too. or even at equal level as their families of their other halves. but at least i noe i never let my friends down. i'm always the one there for them regardless of what kind of unpleasant situations they have gotten themsleves into. but my closest gfs left me when i needed them most. n they did it more than once. n if they would have given me more attention as in willing to listen n tok to me, i might not have done what i done.
sometimes when all esle fail, you'll tend to wanna fall back on some good loyal friends. but when they disappoint you too, you'll feel the whole world have let you down.
I dunno where all these came from suddenly, but just feel like penning it down.
so those who have your best and closest friends around you, be grateful to them. send them a message and tell them thank you. cos not everyone is as blessed to have such friends. -
that's a very nice little thought u've written keisha..
i guess friends come and go.. the true ones stay.. i'm fortunate to have a bunch of great friends i've known since sec sch.. and they never failed to lift me from valleys of my life.. -
When i was in sch,my teacher told us that when u grow older,friend around u,especially close friend,u can use one hand to count.mean one hand only 5 finger.
Yeah Actually what he say is correct.i learnt alot of thing from him....
he eat salt more den i eat rice -
silly, my 2 gfs were all the way from primary 1.
anyway both are not loyal, and they are never 'yi qi' enough. all crap. toking abt them makes me feel sick sometimes, really sick.
guardsman, ur teacher is rite, friends come n go. i've learn tat its a fact in life. so i dun stick to one group now. i have many friends, but none tat is close enuff, juz rather keep my distance. -
I try not to expect too much out of friends/acquaintences. Saves from being too embittered from letdowns.
But I'm lucky to have a few close friends whom I think I can count on.Originally posted by keisha:for me, i dun really believe in real friendship outside, especially gfs. they come and go. and what is important to gal are thier bfs, their hubbies, their families. friends will not be their top priority. -
Originally posted by keisha:silly, my 2 gfs were all the way from primary 1.
anyway both are not loyal, and they are never 'yi qi' enough. all crap. toking abt them makes me feel sick sometimes, really sick.
ppl change.. most of the time their priorities change.. but hey, when the door closes... others will open.. that's what i believe... maybe somewhere down the road... you'll find a another friend you can trust and lean on -
Try to find something good out of everything bad?