I'm leaving soon...
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are u lost?? must take care lah... we will miss uOriginally posted by shan_cai:Thks... But i dunno...
Alot of "dunno" keep appearin in my head... -
Originally posted by shan_cai:Dun even noe if i can come bk alive anot...
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Originally posted by shan_cai:Philippines.
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erm...hmmz....are u posting ur experinces..how u feel? or isit..Originally posted by donjng:I am going to be harsh in here. You can delete it if you dun like what I said.
You are using this opportunity of going away to make him realise that he can't do without you.
Hopefully, it will turn out to be the way you wanted, or, you are going to lose this relationship.
Problems won't be solved by going away, neither nor to leave it as it is. You will eventually, have to talk it through and settled evey problem you have. If you think by going away, problems will be solved, then, I dissuade you from having that kind of thoughts. If you can't even solve your problems when face to face, its even harder to solve it when you are away. More miscommunications will take place. You dun expect and hope that he will fly over to Philipines to give you surprises. However, you WISH that it will happen, just like in any romance novels/dramas you came upon when the lead actor went overseas to find his love, both the lead actor and actress are going to live happily everafter. Wake up! We are all living in a realistic world. You know that the chances of that happening, is very slight! Dun give yourself any illusions, coz you will be even more heartbroken when that doesn't happen or turn out the way that you wanted! You commented that your bf didn't want you to go in the first place. But, the next day, he decided to let you do as you deem fit. I dun see anything wrong with it. Firstly, I presume that he must have love you, thats why, he doesn't want you to go. Then, upon careful considerations, he decided that you do as you deem fit. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you at all. I take it that, because he loves you, he decided to let you do what you want! If you are happy, he will be happy too! Thats what love is all about!
However, going away in a short period of time is fine as it helps to clear your mind and decide on how your next step will be.
Cheers.
well..after reading this i argee abit ..erm... 
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dont lar..u must try to manage this forum k.. its urs...Originally posted by shan_cai:U already noe my final decision liao meh?
If i stay, i'll stil continue 2 manage my forum.
If i leave, i may b able 2 get Internet connection there n continue 2 look aft my forum, or else my fellow mods wil look aft 4 mi de...
we dont wish to see this forums grow weeds n who else can look after it so well like u..even the forums name is..
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the younger generations.. just like singapore..Originally posted by wuming78:oh man. everyone seems to be leaving. is it time for the old guards to move along and for the newbies to take over? -
me post n post n post ..all the way until here u say u not leavingOriginally posted by shan_cai:Eh~~~ Im not leavin... 
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isit so serious ?Originally posted by Troy437:U not leaving liao
Thats great!!.....
Hey wait a minute I cried three days three nights bcoz u said u leaving...and now U say U not leaving
Da Pian Zi! Pian Wo Men de Gan Qing !! 
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Originally posted by shan_cai:Eh~~~ Im not leavin...
sorted out your things liao is it. glad you stay. -
this shows that you are a fan of shan caiOriginally posted by SGpork:me post n post n post ..all the way until here u say u not leaving
arrrrrr
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SC, if u really set ur mind bout leaving. Pls do take good care of urself and remember to update us how u okay? If not, I will start saying u "mei liang xin" again!
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K lah, u nv read til e last post... I said not leavin le...Originally posted by boy in blues:don't go. stay ok?
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...Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):huh?? confirmed not going already??? good lor. then got ppl for mi to suan already. -
Originally posted by Troy437:U not leaving liao Thats great!!.....
Hey wait a minute I cried three days three nights bcoz u said u leaving...and now U say U not leaving
Da Pian Zi! Pian Wo Men de Gan Qing !! Serious anot...? 3 days 3 nites... Abit dua pao xian leh... No lah, nv qi pian all ur gan qing... Juz tat when i posted dis topic, my mind is stil in a whirl... Dunno wat 2 decide... -
Love problem is secondary... Not e main reason y i wanna leave. But i already decide not 2 go there... Read my posts in pg 5 n u'll noe y...Originally posted by SGpork:better for us too...erm love problem?
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No worries, boy... Dis forum wil stil go on as ever... Hopefully livelier~!Originally posted by SGpork:dont lar..u must try to manage this forum k.. its urs...
we dont wish to see this forums grow weeds n who else can look after it so well like u..even the forums name is..
/me dont wish to see this lively.. happy forums turn into a cold ghost forums.. 
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Dun say tat ok... When i tot of leavin, i feel so sad... Had 2 leave Singapore, leave dis forum, leave my frenz, leave him, my job n plans 2 study...Originally posted by SGpork:isit so serious ?
oh yeah..she cheat our feelings.. Now tat im not leavin, hope everythin can resume 2 normal... -
Originally posted by edLow:SC, if u really set ur mind bout leaving. Pls do take good care of urself and remember to update us how u okay? If not, I will start saying u "mei liang xin" again! Wo bu zou le...
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well internet is borderless. u may leave sg but dun have to leave the forums. for me... i AM leaving, and i almost certainly will not be back, except for holidays.Originally posted by shan_cai:Dun say tat ok... When i tot of leavin, i feel so sad... Had 2 leave Singapore, leave dis forum, leave my frenz, leave him, my job n plans 2 study... Now tat im not leavin, hope everythin can resume 2 normal... -
Originally posted by starcom:this shows that you are a fan of shan cai
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ME NO more BOY hor??!!!Originally posted by shan_cai:No worries, boy... Dis forum wil stil go on as ever... Hopefully livelier~!
/me go back play toy car... -
okok...dont sad larz..be happy k ?Originally posted by shan_cai:Dun say tat ok... When i tot of leavin, i feel so sad... Had 2 leave Singapore, leave dis forum, leave my frenz, leave him, my job n plans 2 study... Now tat im not leavin, hope everythin can resume 2 normal...
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Originally posted by shan_cai: Wo bu zou le... YAAAAAAAY!
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tai hao le!Originally posted by shan_cai: Wo bu zou le... -
Hmmm~ Yup i rem... Ur leavin in July rite...Originally posted by HENG@:well internet is borderless. u may leave sg but dun have to leave the forums. for me... i AM leaving, and i almost certainly will not be back, except for holidays.