I c I understand liao.........Originally posted by shan_cai:Hmmm~ Perhaps ur rite... But e prob between mi n him is secondary... Main reason im goin over is coz my grandpa there is sick...
If i wanna leave singapore coz of him, i can juz choose nearer places like KL mah... No need go such an unstable n dangerous place...
Yup... So... Somehow gotta prioritize abit...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:I c I understand liao.........![]()
Best of luck than ...n i hope ur grandpa will get well soon...Originally posted by shan_cai:Hmmm~ Perhaps ur rite... But e prob between mi n him is secondary... Main reason im goin over is coz my grandpa there is sick...
If i wanna leave singapore coz of him, i can juz choose nearer places like KL mah... No need go such an unstable n dangerous place...
Okay at least i know that your purpose of going there is family related matters & not your hubby prob.Originally posted by shan_cai:Yup... So... Somehow gotta prioritize abit...
I already made my choice... Hope everybody who's involved, b it my bf or my parents, wont blame mi 4 my decision... Aft all they all said e choice is mine...Originally posted by harryryan:Best of luck than ...n i hope ur grandpa will get well soon...
as for ur problems with him..... i can onli say one thing....sometimes deep in our harts,we already know what to do n wat e answers r...we just want pple to tell us or we might not wanna accept it..... do wat ur hart tells u ..... Do not live this life with any regrets.
Ya, as i've stated in e frt pages, im juz makin use of dis chance 2 solve some probs between mi n him...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Okay at least i know that your purpose of going there is family related matters & not your hubby prob.
then that's why lor...Originally posted by shan_cai:Im goin over coz of family... But i oso cant bear him...
I think it might be more friendly to see the entire picture before passing a judgement.Originally posted by bismarck:so u are saying that i just jumped into conclusions without reading every page?
Ur my personal fren-cum-buddy... I'll tel u in msn tomo k...Originally posted by Alexinho:wat happen?
Originally posted by OCEANOS:Dun b sad, oceanos gor... My decision is not 2 leave... Had tink thru e nite liao. Hope i wont regret dis decision... Not solely coz of him, but other commitments as well... If i go, i wont noe when i'll b comin bk... I juz hope i wont regret dis decision.
[b]Dear Shan_cai mei mei,
Whatever decision you make, its your personal choice & i am sure you know what you are doing! Take good care of yourself over there! Just before you go maybe we can go for a little farewell gathering, just let me know anytime after 10th June, i will arrange with others. We can go for a meal, coffee, Ktv or just anything you feel like it...Well some of us here will definitely miss u...Be happy k!
Blessed Be,
Oceanos[/b]
Got chance de lah...Originally posted by X-men:Well... since you have made a decision.
I wish you all the best for your future in the place you going to.
No chance to listen to your singings liao![]()
don't go. stay ok?Originally posted by shan_cai:Dunno when wil come bk...![]()
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huh?? confirmed not going already??? good lor. then got ppl for mi to suan already.Originally posted by shan_cai:Eh~~~ Im not leavin...
U not leaving liaoOriginally posted by shan_cai:Eh~~~ Im not leavin...
where u going?Originally posted by shan_cai:Not tat either...
Some personal matters...
sounds like my mum..she always say this..Originally posted by BufPuf:No head no tail
dun understand
better for us too...erm love problem?Originally posted by shan_cai:Initially i dun intend 2 leave... But since things r liddat liao, maybe make use of dis chance 2 go loh... Maybe liddat things wil b better 4 us too...