THERE??
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do they really like u or do they jux accept u becos u r jux THERE??do they actually want u to be there in their lives or are you jux too troublesome to kick out of their lives??are u a part of them or are u jux another part of their everyday lives??like the table,jux THERE!
can live with,can also live without.in fact it doesn't even matter...
frds that u think are close,or that u click well with might not be thinking the same abt u.u are jux THERE...u are a nice person to talk to,but if i had to lived my live without u.it will not be a problem...well,its nice to have u ard,but wont make a difference if u are not..so it happens that u r jux THERE...not anywhere else but jux THERE....come lets go shopping together,so u can be ux THERE....come lets go for coffee,so u can be jux THERE....lets go hang out,so u will be jux THERE.....i need someone to cry to,be THERE.....i need to b1tch about my boss,so be THERE.....
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problems? ratty...
or trying to mess with people's minds, especially those who say i'll be there? -
i noe a qualified psychologist......
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no need a shrink...
what he says is true.. i know the feeling he speaks of too well..Originally posted by weidev:i noe a qualified psychologist...... -
It's very true isn't it....
We humans always takes things for granted... including those we care for....
Human nature?????
They care, rat........ just forgotten how to show it....... -
what if they do show it,but its jux out of habit,becos they really did use to care.and now have forgotten how to stop showing it even tho the caring stopped??Originally posted by lilogirl:It's very true isn't it....
We humans always takes things for granted... including those we care for....
Human nature?????
They care, rat........ just forgotten how to show it.......
wat if they jux forgotten how it is not to care...so they jux keep on caring???
or that they show it but in actual fact dont care??
but theres all beside the point...i dun care if they care or not,doesnt bother me at all.i m not concern abt the care. i m more obess with the THERE!!
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Perhaps for some being there is a kind of reassurance??Originally posted by ratinacage:what if they do show it,but its jux out of habit,becos they really did use to care.and now have forgotten how to stop showing it even tho the caring stopped??
wat if they jux forgotten how it is not to care...so they jux keep on caring???
or that they show it but in actual fact dont care??
but theres all beside the point...i dun care if they care or not,doesnt bother me at all.i m not concern abt the care. i m more obess with the THERE!!
Like u say, many things can be borne out of habit?? What if by being there u gives the kind of permanance and stability a person need???
So out of habit, they need you there???
Maybe I'm wrong... maybe they really do not care anymore... but if they did once care then it can be regained again can't it???
Don't mind me... in a nonsense sprouting mood..... -
will take more than a shrink to clear my thots...might never be abt to anyways......Originally posted by weidev:i noe a qualified psychologist...... -
wanting to be THERE and being there jux becos its a habit is a totally different thing.Originally posted by lilogirl:Perhaps for some being there is a kind of reassurance??
Like u say, many things can be borne out of habit?? What if by being there u gives the kind of permanance and stability a person need???
So out of habit, they need you there???
Maybe I'm wrong... maybe they really do not care anymore... but if they did once care then it can be regained again can't it???
Don't mind me... in a nonsense sprouting mood.....
and if u lose it,wat is te point of working to regain it???it must be out of pure pleasure and willingness,no??if u have to work at it.something is wrong,no??ppl might say that if u work at it,it will be so much sweeter.....but i beg to differ.....i think it shud come au natural....
i dunno..........really