Relationship Advice from me XD
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Ok. First thing first... if ur young like around 16 or below then i suggest u dont read this because ur too young for this topic... GO STUDY!! Then come read this once ur 18 or something.
ok now lets get to relationship,
1) - Calling it Quits
I'm talking about relationship that are not working out. If u make it through 6 months and so on and everything is smooth then u guys started going on this bumpy road on a relationship like disagree one another from time to time and something just doesn't feel right but u can fix that by maybe going to counselling or just sit down together and speak honestly to each other and LISTEN of what u two have to say. BUT... if u only make it like only 2-3 weeks or 1-2 months with a person and things started to falling apart and arguing every single day. Then i recommend u move on. Forget about her/him. really =.=
2) - Dress a part
Ok for u guys wearing those big ass T-shirts all the way down to your knees or those tight ass jeans... THAT AIN'T COOL. Wear something that fits u. U have to wear something that shows the lady what u have offer. Like for example, we girls when look at guys with such skinny jeans or too over-dressed like wearing a suit just for roaming around the city is ridiculous. Wear something that we will go like "oh thats nice.. he has a nice body, presentable" blah blah blah and all that. Because come on, u guys like to show off with your appearance.. same for us, we like to show off our appearance too. Now one thing, we girls like to judge. Listen guys... we girls JUDGE guys... u have to realise we judge hard. So u guys have to look nice. If her girl friends saw u and talking about your appearance or some shit to her, u ain't gonna last long. Trust me. She may start to having a problems with u. So please... maintain because eyes are everywhere once u step foot out from your house.
3) - GET THEM OUT
Ok. This is ESPECIALLY for guys. U guys need to take girls out often. NO JOKE. u have to start taking your girl out. I know some of u guys maybe dont like to walk but u have to force yourself to like it because u can't have her keep on bugging u all the time through sms or phone or go over to your house. We girls like to travel and do things. u guys dont have to take us out on an exotic places everytime.. u know budget and stuff and we understand but that doesn't we have to stay at home. Walk near the beach at east coast or changi.. pulau ubin takes only idk... 4-5 dollars only. I know some of u guys will said to me "but i cant ask her out .. i dont have any money.. i cant afford how?" THEN GO HAVE A JOB dont focus on a girl yet. 'WHAT? kns.. im too young to get a job la!!" THEN your ass are too young to read this topic. PEACE AND GET OUT >:O
4) - BREATH!
yes. i dont know why i have to go here but u guys and girls. really... brush up. Girls with pretty face and slender body and guys with those nice abs and good looking face but once u all started to talk.. damn, all your breath is like a rat died in your mouth. U people have to brush your teeth... your tongue... eat minty sweets. seriously =.=
5) - Dont be so Detailed
This is to the girls especially. "u know my boyfriend didnt notice that i wear this mini skirts.. and he also didnt notice that i paint my fingernails in pink glitter.... i think he's cheating on me. He's with the other girl.. i hate him" seriously girls.. STOP IT!. Those guys mind have to be in 10 other different things. He didnt see it or he maybe didnt realise it. Or maybe he dont need to see all that because u the only one is what he is concern about.. not on every specific detail u put on your image. It's really stupid that u girls are complaining over such small things and the guys dont even realise it. And your relationship are just getting worser so please stop thinking about that. IF he forgots about your birthday, annivesary or something big that u make a right choice leaving him because ain't no men will forgot something that big. Get over it.... guys are sometimes often stress. Because they got army, jobs, projects.... u girls have to understand. I know i did.
6) - KEPOH!!!
Stop being so nosey. Guys and girls... are so nosey. For example, Guys using his phone and texting here and there and laugh to themselves.. just because his friends making a joke and u girls will all be like "what the heck is he smiling about?". When he go to somewhere urgent and leave his hp, u girls will become curious and starts to take his phone and see what is he texting about and who is he texting to. Then when he came back and saw u creeping on his hp. He will get pissed. They will be like thinking of locking up their hp and u girls dont want that.. it will be more suspicious. In order to have a smooth relationship, u have to trust each other. They need to have a certain amount of privacy.. thats why emails have passwords. They need to have a privacy. U can't just breathe everywhere on their necks. They need space. Relationship wont go well if this continue.
okie im done. I can post more if this helps u ^^. Tell me if this helps u or what. It's just an advice from me... seeing lots of relationship downfall lately so i might as well help out. xD
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Relationship advice from you? I rather check myself into a mental institute.
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forumites, heed at ur own risk
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whattt.... i think my advice is quite ok =.=
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No one said its not ok. So what spurred you to write a long post? You just finished watching a series of another-one-of-my-favourite-animes ?
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im sure everyone who gives advices (whether ppl need or not) oso think their advices are okay, in fact, the bestest.
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naww i just feel like helping out xD. because recently my friends got some relationship trouble so yea.
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ok, so help THEM.
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good advice for xdds and xmms.
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Thanks for the tips. HOPE to try them out one day...... if even got chance.
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Suddenly, TS had a calling and decide to help mankind...
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
Suddenly, TS had a calling and decide to help mankind...
And womankind.
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
good advice for xdds and xmms.
so u better listen k.
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Originally posted by Simple~Gal:
Ok. First thing first... if ur young like around 16 or below then i suggest u dont read this because ur too young for this topic... GO STUDY!! Then come read this once ur 18 or something.
ok now lets get to relationship,
1) - Calling it Quits
I'm talking about relationship that are not working out. If u make it through 6 months and so on and everything is smooth then u guys started going on this bumpy road on a relationship like disagree one another from time to time and something just doesn't feel right but u can fix that by maybe going to counselling or just sit down together and speak honestly to each other and LISTEN of what u two have to say. BUT... if u only make it like only 2-3 weeks or 1-2 months with a person and things started to falling apart and arguing every single day. Then i recommend u move on. Forget about her/him. really =.=
2) - Dress a part
Ok for u guys wearing those big ass T-shirts all the way down to your knees or those tight ass jeans... THAT AIN'T COOL. Wear something that fits u. U have to wear something that shows the lady what u have offer. Like for example, we girls when look at guys with such skinny jeans or too over-dressed like wearing a suit just for roaming around the city is ridiculous. Wear something that we will go like "oh thats nice.. he has a nice body, presentable" blah blah blah and all that. Because come on, u guys like to show off with your appearance.. same for us, we like to show off our appearance too. Now one thing, we girls like to judge. Listen guys... we girls JUDGE guys... u have to realise we judge hard. So u guys have to look nice. If her girl friends saw u and talking about your appearance or some shit to her, u ain't gonna last long. Trust me. She may start to having a problems with u. So please... maintain because eyes are everywhere once u step foot out from your house.
3) - GET THEM OUT
Ok. This is ESPECIALLY for guys. U guys need to take girls out often. NO JOKE. u have to start taking your girl out. I know some of u guys maybe dont like to walk but u have to force yourself to like it because u can't have her keep on bugging u all the time through sms or phone or go over to your house. We girls like to travel and do things. u guys dont have to take us out on an exotic places everytime.. u know budget and stuff and we understand but that doesn't we have to stay at home. Walk near the beach at east coast or changi.. pulau ubin takes only idk... 4-5 dollars only. I know some of u guys will said to me "but i cant ask her out .. i dont have any money.. i cant afford how?" THEN GO HAVE A JOB dont focus on a girl yet. 'WHAT? kns.. im too young to get a job la!!" THEN your ass are too young to read this topic. PEACE AND GET OUT >:O
4) - BREATH!
yes. i dont know why i have to go here but u guys and girls. really... brush up. Girls with pretty face and slender body and guys with those nice abs and good looking face but once u all started to talk.. damn, all your breath is like a rat died in your mouth. U people have to brush your teeth... your tongue... eat minty sweets. seriously =.=
5) - Dont be so Detailed
This is to the girls especially. "u know my boyfriend didnt notice that i wear this mini skirts.. and he also didnt notice that i paint my fingernails in pink glitter.... i think he's cheating on me. He's with the other girl.. i hate him" seriously girls.. STOP IT!. Those guys mind have to be in 10 other different things. He didnt see it or he maybe didnt realise it. Or maybe he dont need to see all that because u the only one is what he is concern about.. not on every specific detail u put on your image. It's really stupid that u girls are complaining over such small things and the guys dont even realise it. And your relationship are just getting worser so please stop thinking about that. IF he forgots about your birthday, annivesary or something big that u make a right choice leaving him because ain't no men will forgot something that big. Get over it.... guys are sometimes often stress. Because they got army, jobs, projects.... u girls have to understand. I know i did.
6) - KEPOH!!!
Stop being so nosey. Guys and girls... are so nosey. For example, Guys using his phone and texting here and there and laugh to themselves.. just because his friends making a joke and u girls will all be like "what the heck is he smiling about?". When he go to somewhere urgent and leave his hp, u girls will become curious and starts to take his phone and see what is he texting about and who is he texting to. Then when he came back and saw u creeping on his hp. He will get pissed. They will be like thinking of locking up their hp and u girls dont want that.. it will be more suspicious. In order to have a smooth relationship, u have to trust each other. They need to have a certain amount of privacy.. thats why emails have passwords. They need to have a privacy. U can't just breathe everywhere on their necks. They need space. Relationship wont go well if this continue.
okie im done. I can post more if this helps u ^^. Tell me if this helps u or what. It's just an advice from me... seeing lots of relationship downfall lately so i might as well help out. xD
Yer advice is nothing new.
Everybody oledi knows tat..
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
good advice for xdds and xmms.
Yes u better listen, bcause u got bad taste.Always hanging around wif tat retired policewoman missbonkers.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
so u better listen k.
我是硬汉， not xdd. -
Originally posted by The Samurai Warrior:
Yer advice is nothing new.
Everybody oledi knows tat..
excuse me? if everybody already "knows" that then why lots of people keep on repeating that mistake. And i wont be wasting my time posting all these T_T.
that sentence is kinda pissed me u know >.>
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
我是硬汉， not xdd.
how 硬 ??? -
I now totally understand the opposite sex. I have been set free !!lol
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
我是硬汉， not xdd.
Haha? You? U r a softie, u give in to gambling so easily n lose $$$. U see the casino table n u start salivating, how can u be macho man?Just admit la, u fail in alot of relationship n the most recent wan, u chose the worse kind of partner in yer life.
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Originally posted by The Julian factor:
Haha? You? U r a softie, u give in to gambling so easily n lose $$$. U see the casino table n u start salivating, how can u be macho man?Just admit la, u fail in alot of relationship n the most recent wan, u chose the worse kind of partner in yer life.
dunno where u heard about my non-existent past r/s, but thanks for ur concern.
and hor shouldnt u worry about ur mental health instead?
im sure its not normal for a human to be barking like a dog,imagining stuffs about other people. after treatment ä½ ä¹Ÿå�¯ä»¥è·Ÿæ£å¸¸äººä¸€æ ·ç”Ÿæ´»çš„ï¼ŒåŠ æ²¹å�§!
Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
how 硬 ???sibeh 硬
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
sibeh 硬
pffffffttt~ 
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hey great tips! i like it and i should make it a point to remember
i also just wanna add that usually for relationships to continue, i noticed that the boyfren and girlfren needs to always be working on a "project" together... in this way, there is this common goal and topic to keep the relationship going... what i mean by "project" is anything from planning a holiday trip together, studying together for some major exam, looking for something, like furniture, decorative items etc. to decorate your room... can even be your hostel room... removating your new apartment for the older couples.. etc. any project... just do things together
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Best advice you will ever have regardless of whether you are 16, 26 or 86:
Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone.