When it comes to romantic relationships and dating, the word honesty
seems to have taken on a different meaning. A lot of women equate being
honest with being open. When a man is not open to a woman, she considers
him dishonest. But being honest and being open is two separate issues.
Everyone has their share of positive and negative experiences in life.
It is entirely up to you to decide which experiences you wish to talk
about in the presence of your date/partner.
If a man only chooses to talk about all his positive experiences to his
date, she can only have a positive image about him simply because she
doesn't know anything negative about him. Despite what they claim, women
want to enjoy their date by having a positive and uplifting time with a
guy. Anything that is negative will only have a negative effect on her
interest towards him. Which also means that anything positive will only
have a positive effect on her interest towards him.
You can tell her how you used to represent your school for
athletic/sport competitions. Tell her you have a great family and enjoy
spending time with your family members on weekends/holidays. Tell her
you have a great job where you get along very well with all your
colleagues and you enjoy the work that you do. But never ever brag
though. Basically everything that comes out from your mouth has to be
positive and avoid anything negative at all costs.
Woman like men who are mysterious and they like the fact that they have
to work to find out more about you. They like to play detective and find
out everything about you. So it is of utmost importance for the man not
to give the store away too easily. If you tell her your whole life
story on the first date, then there is nothing interesting for her to
find out anymore. You have to open up to her very slowly. Spoon feed her
bit by bit.
In fact, it is highly recommended for the man to do only 30% of the
talking by asking her questions about her and let her do 70% of the
talking. Listen attentively and ask her questions on her answers. Women
love to talk (about themselves).
but there are gals like parnie who dun like to talk about themselves? in that case what should i do TS?