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Originally posted by dracas:its silly but how do you get a lady for a date? do u go by the (1) Shall we go out together? or use other excuses just to hang out with u alone?
i feel ladies who are near marriageable age will appreciate the 1st way more? its direct with no hidden motives.
Be direct lar. Make sure first you give her an orientation about what you like and don't like. Make sure you tell her that you prefer privacy and directness. Tell her that you are a straight person and don't like manipulative games. Tell her that you don't like third party meddling and that you are a traditionalist who like to go out for dinner or watch movie to get to know her better. It takes the so-called romance away but I assure you if you don't make it clear to her that you don't like games, she make your life a living hell. And there is a 99% confidence interval that you won't succeed. There is a +1 coefficient correlation between you being direct and chances of better success.
Originally posted by dracas:its silly but how do you get a lady for a date? do u go by the (1) Shall we go out together? or use other excuses just to hang out with u alone?
i feel ladies who are near marriageable age will appreciate the 1st way more? its direct with no hidden motives.
both are very weak statements. i sends a signal to the girl that you have no confidence in yourself and you are afraid of being rejected.
ask directly. "I would like to take you out on a dinner DATE this thursday 8pm at marina square Swensens. Can you make it?"
if she rejects your offer, you just saved some $ to spend on the next girl that accepts your offer. anyway, you shouldn't be spending your hard earned $ on a girl who doesn't even like you to begin with.
well, those who are near marriageable age are more desperate and more receptive to guys in general because they know that time is not on their side anymore.
however, all clinically sane women love men who are confident and self-assured.
if you're talking about my age group, then i'll rather he says that he wanna hang out or go out with me for a walk.
Originally posted by brainerror:if you're talking about my age group, then i'll rather he says that he wanna hang out or go out with me for a walk.
i have no clue what your age group is but i know all women behave like women. meaning they are highly consistent and logical if you understand them.
guys and girls below age of 23 are generally not advisable to date them seriously because they are capable of falling in and out of love in 5 mins. if you just need some practise on how to handle women, please go ahead with such age group.