Can anyone advice me? Girl-related problem... :-(
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Why take so long to ask her out..?
SMS cannot be one month lah.....
Try to setup a date...something low-key and low-pressure....
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Wrong forum to begin with...
Anyway I think if she replied those "ok" "K" then either she no interest, or U sms her stuffs that sure get a "ok" "k" reply...
Things like "Have u eaten?" "yes"... phail...
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1 month already still play sms, of course she's lost interest with you. I think she found another guy more willing to play something more than just sms with her.
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Forget it, find a new target
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Sorry for posting in the wrong section. MODS, maybe you can try to help re-allocate my topic to the correct forum.
OK, I have the feeling too that she has lost interest in me. Sob :'-(.
Not easy to find another girl, I don't have the charisma like most of my friends. Sigh... -
Yah, carry on thinking like that and you'll never find any girls.You failed even before you begun.
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Confidence pill, anyone has a spare ?
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well ttfu you can post all the courage wolf memes
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Calling someone 4 times in one month is way too long, it kills a lot of chemistry. You may be 26 but when it comes to the love game, i'm afraid you're still a baby. Why don't you buy those dating books from the bookstore? They can give you great ideas on how to strike up conversation, suspense play and amplification of interest.
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give up...kindly move on
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bro, my size like you... but you must keep contact her... jia you! i going to carry out my mission soon...
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Originally posted by hest_812:
Hello all. My first post in SgForums!
I have a problem. I hope anyone can advice me.. Im 26 years old, plus sized but not too big and is basically a simple guy. One thing, I am extremely shy when talking to girls/woman :(
I was given a girl's phone number by my friend as he said she would be a perfect match for me...
Ok, initially, things went smooth, first day, we exchanged photos and her sms reply was quick and swift. I called her only 4 times in my one month of knowing her.Yep, I simply do not know how to talk to girls! I have not yet met her face-to-face..
Then, one month later, I think she has lost interest in me, Recently, she took one whole day to reply my one sms, reason she says she is not feeling to well.
God knows whether thats a truth or lie.
She replied my sms with one or two words indicating "OK" or just "K".
Her SMS was not as long as last time :(
Has she really lost interest in me? Any hope of perking up her interest for me? Should I ask her out for lunch? Or should I just go find another one?
Any love cupids here, please help advice a poor chap here.. :'-(
Too shy is an illness. I known a boy who fear females. Any females talked to him , he scared. Specific phobia is scary. -
Sad case... Although I'm not as jialat compared to you, I do have the same phobia as you, like StarDust mentioned. :( anybody know how to overcome? I have this girl I like as well... although no cruelty shown, she seems to send me one-word sms replies always. Face-to-face convos are nothing more than hellos, maybe occasional discussions but then my phobia will act up, blood will start rushing to my head and boomz i will get tongue tied and the convo will sadly die. And as a matter of fact and too much of a rush, I bleakly confessed to her thru text. Before was okay with decent replies, but only after confession she starts giving 1word replies during sms.
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Originally posted by NaughtyNoob:
Sad case... Although I'm not as jialat compared to you, I do have the same phobia as you, like StarDust mentioned. :( anybody know how to overcome? I have this girl I like as well... although no cruelty shown, she seems to send me one-word sms replies always. Face-to-face convos are nothing more than hellos, maybe occasional discussions but then my phobia will act up, blood will start rushing to my head and boomz i will get tongue tied and the convo will sadly die. And as a matter of fact and too much of a rush, I bleakly confessed to her thru text. Before was okay with decent replies, but only after confession she starts giving 1word replies during sms.
I think you need to tell youself not to feel so nervous. Its a internal war between you and your self-confidence. Try to bring up a different topic, like school or food or whatever. So whats the reply that you got ?
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To TS: Bro, I am not handsome but got gals tell me I am charming cos I am confident. It makes a huge difference...
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its probably too late for you bt if u really like her u can try bringing some topic she is interested in and asking her out if she responds positively
....Or just admit the fact that you might be single for life, aint that bad once u get used to it
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JY bro..... Alot of gals in S'pore.... No need worry.
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when i see the girl i like, my legs will go wobbly and my hands will tremble and whole body go into shock staus like epilepsy
just kidding
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Originally posted by ditzy:
1 month already still play sms, of course she's lost interest with you. I think she found another guy more willing to play something more than just sms with her.
lol... totally agreed !!! Must work fast... sms only for intro or short sexy goodnite msg after fabbing her....have to change and dump your shyness... ( shy = no b^lls ) = no action, talk only... no achievement right ???
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Originally posted by Operation//Overkill:
JY bro..... Alot of gals in S'pore.... No need worry.
Yeah man... @ Orchard Towers.. you got many to choose from... Russian ? -
my advice for u is to go for a drink in a healthy pub (make sure there are gals inside) ....
u need a training ground to know more gals and open up....show and express yourself .....but stay cool...no need to go head over heels (even if u like any gal....keep well control)...
go have a chat and make some frens....
if u have "stage fright" one good way is to approach her as if she can be your sister....just like how u talk to your sister or a good fren at school or at work....
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if u r being rejected....dun worry...but do not be seen to be too trying....stop it and leave
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Confidence pill, anyone has a spare ?
There you go...1) Maybe she's emo and don't feel like contacting the people... So leave only one word answer. Wait for a while, and sms her again..
2) If you sms me one month's worth of "Had your lunch?" I will definitely reply "yes" only...
try sharing those happening events in your life for a start ^^. plus, I'm usually very touched when people sms me something like this. " Long time no chat, I miss your conversation. How have you been? " I will usually make an effort to reply no matter how busy I am. Maybe it will work on her. But must be sincere!