A case of mismatch?
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no no no
is grad bf with ah lian smoker tattoo-infested gf but has the face and figure of FX.
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Its normal for ppl to judge a person first impression based on their appearance together with what they have. And I dont really believe in instinct to judge people, there are just bullshit excuse for stereotyping, unless u are the kind who is street smart or you really have alot of experience with people.
I accept TS's friend's comment based on first meet up, but I cannot accept if they still make the same remark when they know each other well.
Let me quote you an example of stereotyping: if you see a stranger who is younger than 20 yrs old drives a BMW. Do you normally think that he/she must have a rich parent to drive that??
Think about it. This kind of thing happen anywhere. Try not to be too affected or think too much by what other people said. Cheers!
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Originally posted by SpeedStar:
Its normal for ppl to judge a person first impression based on their appearance together with what they have. And I dont really believe in instinct to judge people, there are just bullshit excuse for stereotyping, unless u are the kind who is street smart or you really have alot of experience with people.
I accept TS's friend's comment based on first meet up, but I cannot accept if they still make the same remark when they know each other well.
Let me quote you an example of stereotyping: if you see a stranger who is younger than 20 yrs old drives a BMW. Do you normally think that he/she must have a rich parent to drive that??
Think about it. This kind of thing happen anywhere. Try not to be too affected or think too much by what other people said. Cheers!
I DIDN'T say ALL gals had the uncanny to judge a person wat...
In fact there are certain behaviors that show that the guy is probably an asshole.
For example, by expresing thought or opinion that the whole world is wrong except for him. Or acting like the whole world owes him a living. All these can be easily detected on the first meeting.
And these behaviors are MAJOR TURN OFFS
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
I DIDN'T say ALL gals had the uncanny to judge a person wat...
In fact there are certain behaviors that show that the guy is probably an asshole.
For example, by expresing thought or opinion that the whole world is wrong except for him. Or acting like the whole world owes him a living. All these can be easily detected on the first meeting.
And these behaviors are MAJOR TURN OFFS
Aha now I see the loser trend. You come here day and night seeking solace from your past wrecked life and ruined relationships. Must really cut you deep, eh? grandma. No wonder you post here so often because you think that by reading other people's pain and sorrow, it gives you comfort. Get a life, miss ! -
Originally posted by Geylang Boh Sia:
Aha now I see the loser trend. You come here day and night seeking solace from your past wrecked life and ruined relationships. Must really cut you deep, eh? grandma. No wonder you post here so often because you think that by reading other people's pain and sorrow, it gives you comfort. Get a life, miss !
What goes around comes around. It applies to you too, don't you tink so? -
All depends on the girl.
But that being said, once girls start working, their mindsets will be more practical and look for certain things in guys. Like cars, degree, similarity.. its only human in a way. Can really blame people or say that they are wrong. There is a lot more injustice in this world.
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People always told me smoking was bad for health, but when I was in the army, the smokers turned out to be fitter in IPPT, than the non smokers, including me. So to me, the world is one big lie, the only truth in this world is myself. Period.
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Originally posted by ah_boon89:
Last saturday I went out with my friends from my Junior College. Some of the girls brought their boyfriends along. Most of the boyfriends were undergraduates, just like those girls. However, there was one exception...
One of the girl's boyfriend isnt an undergraduate. He's a diploma holder and is currently working as a computer technicians in a school. The guy's hair is dyed in golden colour and he's a smoker....
To me, this is perfectly all right. My men during my NS time were all ah beng smokers. I must say that some of these ah bengs are nice people. A number of them turned out to be like this due to family circumstances...
However,for my ladies classmates, due to the lack of exposure to people of different social strata, they concluded that the guy was not suitable for my cassmate.
I was shocked by their views.. (maybe NS has changed my perception of certain stuffs?).. Wat about the rest of you guys? Do you all agree that it's a case of mismatch as mentioned by the other girls?
as long as the girl likes him, there is no mismatch.