When Love and Hate Collide.....

• M©+square

  9 Jan 03, 23:11

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  erm, underlying emotions??
  like??

  Like environment stress? Workplace, Family arguements, Friendship or r/s strained, or misuderstanding which leads to frustrations, or thinking no one understands them, therefore they need to protect themselves by being defensive and offensive towards others(which most of the time happens to BGR or marriage.)
  So is source of Hate from the partner/situations?
  
• M©+square

  9 Jan 03, 23:16

  Hi hi,
  
  I just tot of something more important.
  I suddenly recalled a drama script which says 'My Love for you was so deep that i hate you'
  
  And in this topic...
  Qns: Was the hatred directed the Person or to something which had happened between a couple? *Pls give tot to this*
  
  
• AngelDark

  9 Jan 03, 23:33

  usually it's sumthing that happened
  and the psychological linking towards the person
  
  so when the person thinks abt the bad thing that happened, he/she thinks of the person, and in turn hates the person
• zacken99

  10 Jan 03, 00:33

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  usually it's sumthing that happened
  and the psychological linking towards the person
  
  so when the person thinks abt the bad thing that happened, he/she thinks of the person, and in turn hates the person

  bro met some problem??? mi quite useless dun no hw to help but mi noe che zhi..might able to give u some advice..(can post in the che zhi thread in the house of fengshui)
• CryStaLZ

  10 Jan 03, 08:19

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Well...then the question is what is love which could hurt so much that it becomes hatred?
  
  Ponder.
  

  when break up
• AngelDark

  10 Jan 03, 10:12

  even b4 breakup.....
  such feelings will be present already.....
• AngelDark

  10 Jan 03, 10:12

  Originally posted by zacken99:

  bro met some problem??? mi quite useless dun no hw to help but mi noe che zhi..might able to give u some advice..(can post in the che zhi thread in the house of fengshui)

  thx for concern
  but i'm ok
  =)
  
  juz a matter of time b4 i go crazy
• millennium

  10 Jan 03, 12:46

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  u have ink one leh
  
  but juz that u dun want to show nia

  
  The ink all dried up already.
• millennium

  10 Jan 03, 12:46

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  dunno
  i oso dunno whether i hit the limit liaoz or not

  Conduct test to test yourself.
• Hitakogi

  10 Jan 03, 23:47

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  sometimes have leh
  from hate become love

  arrh .. only in movies will i get to see that! ..
  Real life yet to happen ...
  Tulanz the person then becum love .. got la ..
  hate the person then becum love .. so far .. nono ..
• Hitakogi

  10 Jan 03, 23:49

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  usually it's sumthing that happened
  and the psychological linking towards the person
  
  so when the person thinks abt the bad thing that happened, he/she thinks of the person, and in turn hates the person

  theres only a thin line between love and hate
  hiaz ...
• AngelDark

  11 Jan 03, 00:42

  Originally posted by millennium:

  Conduct test to test yourself.

  how to conduct the test??
• AngelDark

  11 Jan 03, 00:43

  Originally posted by millennium:

  
  The ink all dried up already.

  mai bluff lah
• AngelDark

  11 Jan 03, 00:45

  Originally posted by Hitakogi:

  arrh .. only in movies will i get to see that! ..
  Real life yet to happen ...
  Tulanz the person then becum love .. got la ..
  hate the person then becum love .. so far .. nono ..

  then y u dulanz that person??
  
  usually u tulanz the person, u oso hate the way that person does things rite??
• Hitakogi

  11 Jan 03, 11:44

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  then y u dulanz that person??
  
  usually u tulanz the person, u oso hate the way that person does things rite??

  tulanz becoz of things she hav say or done lor ...
  more to like angry ... but not hate la ..
  we r so friendly people here in sgforums rite?
  how can we hate people so easy? haha
• millennium

  11 Jan 03, 16:36

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  mai bluff lah

  Where you got see ink?
• millennium

  11 Jan 03, 16:38

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  how to conduct the test??

  Go look for books on bgr and read up.
• AngelDark

  12 Jan 03, 16:20

  Originally posted by millennium:

  Where you got see ink?

  have leh
  
  u flame ppl alwiz got ink mahh
  
  i learn from u lehhhh
  
  
• AngelDark

  12 Jan 03, 16:21

  Originally posted by millennium:

  Go look for books on bgr and read up.

  frankly speaking.... i dun believe those things loh
• millennium

  12 Jan 03, 16:59

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  have leh
  
  u flame ppl alwiz got ink mahh
  
  i learn from u lehhhh
  
  

  >pengz<
  Anyhow one lah.
• millennium

  12 Jan 03, 16:59

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  frankly speaking.... i dun believe those things loh

  I also don't believe.
• AngelDark

  12 Jan 03, 23:26

  Originally posted by millennium:

  >pengz<
  Anyhow one lah.

  if u can flame and suan a person until that person nothing to say
  
  that's ink
  
  u have it
• millennium

  13 Jan 03, 14:48

  Originally posted by AngelDark:

  if u can flame and suan a person until that person nothing to say
  
  that's ink
  
  u have it

  Not they nothing to say, is they find me too boliao can't be bothered to reply.
• AngelDark

  13 Jan 03, 17:33

  Originally posted by millennium:

  Not they nothing to say, is they find me too boliao can't be bothered to reply.

  hmm
  dun think so
  ahhahaha
• Xiao Long Nu

  13 Jan 03, 17:46

  no love no hate
  no hate no love
  no love and hate no humans