When Love and Hate Collide.....
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nice and meaningful song
but rather sad....
in human life, such scenarios are a commonplace... true? -
I don't find them a true life scenario....At least not to me.
When a person loves, there is no hate. And pure love(if we could define what it is
i'll just phrase as an ideal) cannot be intermingled with hate.
Only one can take place.
Well...then the question is what is love which could hurt so much that it becomes hatred?
Ponder. -
You love her/him because your heart can't stop loving - you hate her/him at the same time because you hate her/him for making you so vulnerable and expose to emotional hurts.Originally posted by M©+square:I don't find them a true life scenario....At least not to me.
When a person loves, there is no hate. And pure love(if we could define what it is i'll just phrase as an ideal) cannot be intermingled with hate.
Only one can take place.
Well...then the question is what is love which could hurt so much that it becomes hatred?
Ponder. -
ideal?
no such thing in this world anymore
no one can express their true feelings anymore......
a slight betrayal, is enuf to grow the seed of hate
without love, there's no hate
and without hate, there may or may not be love.
it's linked -
Maybe maybe...i don't know if i should call that hate.Originally posted by Yunhaier:You love her/him because your heart can't stop loving - you hate her/him at the same time because you hate her/him for making you so vulnerable and expose to emotional hurts. -
There cannot be love(true love) and hate(sheer hatred) happening at the same time.Originally posted by AngelDark:ideal?
no such thing in this world anymore
no one can express their true feelings anymore......
a slight betrayal, is enuf to grow the seed of hate
without love, there's no hate
and without hate, there may or may not be love.
it's linked
Human hearts cannot even contain Love itself, how can they contain two things(Love+Hate) at the same time? -
Everything revolves about balancing - like good and evil, yin and yang, etc. With love, therefore hate exist - becase the absence of love - is actually hate.Originally posted by M©+square:Maybe maybe...i don't know if i should call that hate. -
absence of love is actually hate?
I beg to differ.
If i don't love somebody doesn't mean that i hate that somebody.
As well as if i don't hate A doesn't necessarily mean that i LOve A.
i would choose neutral - relativity in this aspect. -
Anyway....we are looking at two extremes altogether.
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this is only part of the whole thing that goes onOriginally posted by Yunhaier:You love her/him because your heart can't stop loving - you hate her/him at the same time because you hate her/him for making you so vulnerable and expose to emotional hurts. -
u are looking at extremes, which of course doesn't fit into the pic...Originally posted by M©+square:There cannot be love(true love) and hate(sheer hatred) happening at the same time.
Human hearts cannot even contain Love itself, how can they contain two things(Love+Hate) at the same time?
love may have hate within
and hate may have love within.
like the chinese shows, alwiz show 2 ppl, never knew each other, but somehow got into some probz together, and ended up hating each other, but from there, the hate blossomed into love....
hate within love, and become love
and the reversal can be said for love can become hate, ie, marriage dissolve.... -
If so how then should this two Terms be defined as?
Are we looking at it in a generally POV or the defined POV?
Because i may have seemed to express Love and Hate in it's purest form. -
how abt Antony Ler??
Love + Hate? -
Anthony LerOriginally posted by AngelDark:how abt Antony Ler??
Love + Hate?
Love + Hate = Dead -
Who you love and hate this time?
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......i admit i got this kind of feeling....b4....
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the opposite of love is not hate. its apathy.
chew on that for a minute.
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being indifferent abt emotionsOriginally posted by gasband:the opposite of love is not hate. its apathy.
chew on that for a minute.
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doesn't make it the opposite of love -
myself?Originally posted by millennium:Who you love and hate this time? -
that's y i say it's quite commonOriginally posted by duotiga83: ......i admit i got this kind of feeling....b4....
i am still seeing some "cases" of such "love clashing with hate" -
not once liao....twice?Originally posted by AngelDark:that's y i say it's quite common
i am still seeing some "cases" of such "love clashing with hate" -
Chey.Originally posted by AngelDark:myself? -
The greatest pain in life
is not to die, but to be ignored.
To lose the person you love so
much to another who doesn't care at all.
To have someone you care so about so much throw a party...
and not tell you about it.
When your favorite person on earth
neglects to invite you to his graduation.
To have people think that you don't care.
The greatest pain in life,
is not to die,
but to be forgotten.
To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
To never get a call from a friend,
just saying "hi".
When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
When it seems like the only person who cares about you,
is you.
Life is full of pain,
but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other,
and make time for those who are in need?
Each of us has a part to play
in this great show we call life.
Each of us has a duty to mankind
to tell our friends we love them.
If you do not care about your friends
you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored...
forgotten...
as you have done to others. -
wah
since when mille so poetic???
power sia -
??Originally posted by duotiga83:not once liao....twice?
even today?